August 7th, 2012
ROB SMUNIEWSKI IS DEAD
Dead at 18. Hit by an 84-year-old driving a 20-year-old Honda.
Rob Smuniewski, whose engine revved higher than any of ours, dead.
Who wrote “I love redheads” on his desk, on his locker,
who stood on a table in the cafeteria and asked a redhead to the prom,
who jumped down and danced out of the room shaking his head
when she said no,
who wrote a love poem to redheads from a list of favorite words
(ginger, auburn, strawberry,
freakin’ and one I said he couldn’t use in school) which ended “the only
way to tell
if the drapes match the rug is to see the—and that’s the word you said
I can’t use!”
Who loved his quad, broken down on that January night.
Rob Smuniewski, who must have flown in the air like the deer I hit last
winter in Maine
shot out of the darkness, eyes as wide as mine, both helpless to stop
the sudden collision.
Rob, who danced more than walked, dead. Rob, who called the ladies
and the men “Coach,” always neat in khakis, oxford shirts—argyle vests
for game days—who told his sister, “I don’t go to school to learn;
I go to entertain.” Who taught me never to ask, “Any questions?” in class
when he said, “Yeah. I have two. How come my nose always gets sunburned
no matter what I do. Look! I look like freakin’ Rudolph! And another thing!
When you wear a robe around the house you’re supposed to feel manly. I
feel like a woman.
What’s with that?” Rob freakin’ Smuniewski. Dead. Who you knew, even
when you wanted
to strangle him, couldn’t find his own off switch any more than you could,
apologize later and say, “You the man, Coach.” Who, when he launched into
the frosty air, might have waved to the fear-stricken driver, might have
thought this will make a great story,
might have thought as I did when Cam rolled her old Volvo thirty years ago
as the black pavement rose to meet my passenger window, “So this is how it
–from Rattle #36, Winter 2011